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END THE STEREOTYPING OF PUBLIC AID RECIPIENTS

The Empty Hanger
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Posted by The Empty Hanger

on Sep 14, 2007

(last modified on Sep 14, 2007)

Hi,

I originally came to Aidpage looking for help for me and my two girls. Shortly after that my financial status changed slightly, but as I've said on my other page, things are still tight, but the noose has loosened slightly. Even if all I have is $5 in my wallet, at least I feel like a somebody. The 'empty wallet syndrome' as I like to call it hurled me into such a bad depression at times I wanted to end my own life at times.

What clawed me out of that? I am not sure myself, but it did make me more humble of a person and less of a judgemental person.

I cannot offer any money, loans, scholarships, etc, but I can if anything, offer my page as a place to vent your frustrations. You don't have to be on public aid to already be frustrated about being stereotyped about being this or that way. You know that you can only do what is best for you and your family, and it is those who judge you who will be the first ones with their hand out when they need help. I also feel that those who criticize social welfare are the same ones who are supporting corporate welfare.

I have a place on Squidoo.com   End The Stereotyping of Public Aid Recipients that talks about my own personal situation being on food stamps and my observations as how society has treated me...good and bad. I tell it like it is, and I don't sugar-coat my situation. I want my readers to get a real sense of our hardships. You don't have to be a member of Squidoo to post a message there on my Guestbook.

I hope that anyone who feels alone, scared, and ridiculed because of their situation will find some comfort there knowing that they are not alone.

On my homepage, I placed an offer to give someone girls clothing, and I have a person here on aidpage who is interested. Stay tuned for updates!

God Bless,
Marsha


Categories: USA, Indiana, Help, Food, children, poverty, Disabled, SINGLE MOM, Unemployed, Clothing, need, depression, writing, parent, financial hardship
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1. Tinycountrybees posted on Apr 28, 2008

While I was waiting for my disability to get approved, I was on welfare. I will never forget the first time I used my card. I didn't know what buttons to push. The cashier had no clue either and paged the manager, the manager had to go back and get a manual to try and figure out how to run my card through the machine. I  was so embarrased, the whole line behind me and the next lanes knew I was using a welfare benefit card. People were saying things about me being on welfare and I should go get a job. It was a terrible experience. Now that I know how to use the card and which buttons to push, I still go to the self check out lanes and hope no one is behind me. People sometimes think that because you're on food stamps, you're some kind of dead beat

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